It is really important to understand and reflect on our insecurities. We should try to understand what is it really about. It is only about our appearance or our desire to look good or we are just bothered about others' opinions. We are not here to impress others. we are here to live life. Why we are not able to experience it happily? Why are we so lost in this ideal feature of appearance? Why are we conscious of our looks every time. We focus only on looking good and being liked by others. We want compliments. Sometimes we just don't want people to remind us that we don't have their ideal appearance. We try to avoid them by avoiding meeting people, doing stage performances, standing front in of a group, making new friends, etc. We avoid everything necessary for our development. We can see the difference between people participating and those not participating. We are so lost in this fear of being mocked for our looks that we don't see how much it costs us. We are wasting valuable time avoiding things we should be doing for our development. Sometimes we waste our time by trying to be like others so that we might not get mocked by anyone.
We see ourselves in the mirror wishing to change our appearance, which God created. Sometimes asking why he made us look like that. Looking at other people and wishing why they have a so-called perfect appearance.
We should not do that with ourselves. Why should we curse our appearance just because it does not confirm other's ideal features? Why should we waste our time and energy thinking about things which we can't control or change?
